July 13, 2010
Win Your Ex Back
You have just broken up with your partner and you feel like the pain will last forever. During this time you may experience emotions such as sadness, feeling alone, irrational, mad, don’t feel like doing anything etc. You feel you want the relationship back the way it was, you seriously feel that you want your ex back. However now is the time to ask the serious question “Was the relationship I had so good that I Want My Ex Back?”
Ask yourself the following questions:
- Do you fully enjoy each others company?
- Does your partner make you feel understood?
- Do you feel comfortable sharing your innermost thoughts with your partner?
- Do you feel you are treated with respect?
- Do you and your partner enjoy doing the same things?
- Does your partner please you when you are intimate?
- Does your partner see you as an equal?
- Do you laugh when you’re together?
- Is your relationship based on fairness?
- When you disagree with each other, do the two of you work together and try to resolve your differences?
Take some time to go through these questions on your own and try to get honest answers. This can help you get some clarity, so sit down and write down your feelings and thoughts.
Now continue and write down the good and the bad parts about your partner as well as the relationship as a whole. Now you have to continue and evaluate how the good and bad compare.What is the ratio here? Be objective now and let the truth be told about your relationship. Is the negative going to be outweighed by the positive, if they do can you still be happy? If the negative aspects cannot be changed then are you willing to go back to your ex?
What advice would you have given to a complete stranger if they were in your shoes? Do not be subjective here because if you are not honest and you paint a rosy picture you are only fooling yourself. Think about it if you are going to ignore the actual facts here and you get back with your ex the relationship will most likely follow the same rout and you will be wasting your time, and you could have met your real partner.
Now is the time to decide if the relationship is worth it. Now that you have asked the questions, weighed up the good and bad and you feel there is some hope left take action and get your ex back. So now the time has come to get a plan into action and fight for your partner and Win Your Ex Back.
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